Which is better? Both have the pros and cons..I'd say, both have the benefits and it all depends on your circumstances. Financial, family support, understanding employer and reliable child taker are main elements that may influence the decision to become a WM or SHM.
In my case, it's a 50-50..we are financial ok and I do have a very good (I mean it) employer..yet we are lacking on the remaining 2, esp when there are 3 kids on board. Nothing comes easy and money can't just buy everything.
Therefore..again we had the same situation as we had back in 2008.
Who could make that sacrifice? Me.
Honestly, I love working. It gives me confidence, adrenaline rush and of course lots of financial freedom.
But, when thing aint right with the children..good career and good money could never heal the situation. Things goes up-side-down.
For the best of the kid..to live a heathly life..
For the best of hubby..to focus on work..
For the best of me..not being that super-mama any more..
Most probably it's best that I become a SHM..
That's the power of women..need o say more ;)
Will continue this conversation..till then..have a happy weekend!!
Ps: ermm baru nak pegi Empire - KizWorld tu weekend ni..now had to wait till it re-opens :)
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